It’s been a stressful week for Nick and I. Work has been very demanding and it seems as though every evening has been consumed with work related events. In lieu of demanding schedules, we haven’t had an opportunity to do our underwear shopping homework yet, but have a date planned for tonight that will involve going to The Bay – to find some sexy skivvies. I figured The Bay would be easy, as they do have a huge selection – the change rooms are big enough to do a peep show and there is lots to choose from, for both his briefs and my extravagant lingerie. We are totally excited, it’s definitely the first time we’ve done this together. Following our naughty shopping excursion  we will wear our new undies to Oyster Boy, hit up a film and then come home and do it. That is the plan my friends – and it’s a good one.

Although we didn’t have time to complete this homework assignment this week, there is always time for a little massage, so we decided to work on our Touch Therapy. In the video above, sex therapist Teesha Morgan, discusses stress with Greg and Ramona and shows them how massaging one another – even for just a few minutes – each week is an excellent way to combat stress, touch one another and feel connected and intimate. So although Nick and I did not have a date night this week, we did take time in quiet moments to massage each other. I wish we had a massage table like the lucky couple above, but our messy bed did the job.

One thing I especially loved was when he played with my ear for half an hour. The ear is considered to be a microsite of the body – so when you are massaging the ear – you actually feel like several other areas of your body are being touched. Don’t ask me to explain the science behind this – just try it. It was a beyond blissful experience that warmed and numbed me to sleep. For Nick, I played with his ears, gave him a head massage and a few toe pulls. Explosive sex is great – but so is this type of intimacy, and it’s a lot easier to fit into our hectic schedule – when at the end of the day all we want to do is pass out. That said, I’m really looking forward to a wild romp – if next week we are still only giving each other ear massages, I’ll be a little irritated. If we do our homework tonight then all should end with a good bang! BANG!